Have you and your toddler ever fallen sick together? No? Yes? Well, I recently fell sick and was successfully able to pass my sickness to Y. It all started when we decided to take a stroll in the neibhourhood park and the winter wind hit us hard. We came home and next day I was down with cold and sinus pains. I tried to keep Y away from me but all in vein. The same night he had running nose. Before this, Y had cold only once when he was 9 months old and trust me it was tough to manage a baby with blocked nose but this time I realized that it's 10x tougher to manage a sick toddler. The first night was exhausting, I had blocked nose-headache-faceache-toothache (basically all sinus induced pains) and Y had visibly blocked nose, he might have had other issues which he could not complain about. We tried to give him some steam but he was not cooperative. We put some saline water in his nose and tried to put him to sleep. He slept but refused to get out of my lap. His grand mother and papa tried to take him out of my lap to theirs but he refused and started crying. I had to sleep while sitting whole night, keeping little Y in my lap. That was the most exhausting night i have ever had since we had Y. Next few days/nights were better. Both Y and I took medicines and got better in a couple of days. But that one night of us being sick together, that one night of being a mama while missing my own mama, that one night of offering comfort when I myself needed it the most taught me how selfless a mother's love can be.
Y's naanu-naani stay approximately 500 kms away from us. Due to corona chaos, Y met them last when he was 8 months old. Now when corona started to fade a little bit, we decided to visit his other set of grandparents for the first time after his birth. We decided to take a long road trip since taking public transport still did not seem safe. The trip started at 9 in the morning, Y had just woken up but was thrilled to be put in the moving-car right away. He happily sat on his car seat and started glaring out of window. He was very calm and supportive for the first half of journey. Then, we took a halt and got down to have tea. Once taken out, he hated being back in the moving car. He started throwing fits and banging car door, the act lasted for 15-20 mins and ended with him asleep. The second half of trip after he woke up was rough. He was tired and cranky and just wanted to get out of the damn car. Anyhow, we reached at our destination by 5 in the evening. Now, Y refused to get in...
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